My wife has acted like I'm the one that cheated and left her for the other person. She's treating me like I'm the bad guy.
This seems like a common theme for them to do so don't beat yourself up about it. I'm also at fault for my EW's A. Don't believe it though cause nothing you did throughout the M makes you deserve such treatment. IMO they blame us so they don't have to carry the guilt anymore.
Ditto for me. I could have written the same as Sal27 - my exact thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
Dont think about it. Its their coping mechanism to justify the affair. Hurts, huh?
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process
