Needing Some Guidance 2

[KCRoo]

Thanks you for your support Bluwave.

I will say GAL helped me reach the point that I am at. While DB ultimately didn't save my marriage (it might have, there are just certain things I will not tolerate), it definitely saved myself. Which so many people echo on here.

I am so thankful I found the site and the books. While I was emotional at the beginning of the divorce process, I have become stronger. I think if I would have never had these resources, I would still be plugging along, until ultimately she left me for om2, and I would be an emotional wreck.

At Dday, and really until i started to focus on myself (GAL), my work was suffering because all I could think about was stbx and ea, and that she was probably having a PA (which she still tries to deny).

I will keep you all updated as it goes along.