No, I wouldn't have wanted to know all of those details. I had to see them in order to send them to my lawyer - and also have them for JAG. The OMs wife sent them in a bunch of emails/texts. And don't worry, everything is kept nice and neat and tucked away, just in case...
Now you see why my view of cheaters is what it is. Lowest form there is. What I can't get is why people want them back after such. Maybe our own selfish reasons need to be examined...
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.