By the grace of God

[Coly23]

Hey MLeigh, just got up to date with your posts.

I really don't know you did it, remaining friends with H for so long! The difference between you and I is that I would contstantly pushing H for more especially if we went away together!

Did your talks ever materialise? I dont know, I get the impression he is not sure how to move forward and be in an R with you because he is worried it isn't what you want. However that is your choice to make now not his.

I agree that he doesn't need to know what you are doing re dating. My H was constantly asking questions about what we were doing but was very reluctant to let us into his life.

MLeigh, you have been doing this for a long time and it was lovely that you did this mostly with your S's wellbeing in mind but your H was also benefiting from the arrangement. Like me, the only person who wasn't benefiting is you so now is the time to look after you and let S and H make their own arrangements.

Take care.