Nice guy here too and am reading through that one as well. As BluWave said, it's a great mirror to look into for the nice guys.

I read it 4 years ago but only read and did not implement and "surprise, surprise" (ala Gomer Pyle) we're back here. It's all about the deeper communication and voicing your opinion even when you're afraid to rock the apple cart.

Chris, I'm making strides on this and if I can do it I'm sure you've got it in you too.


Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10
Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13
Reconcile: 07/07/13
Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17
Apartment Life: 04/21/17
PA Confirmed: 05/23/17