Hi Sal,
So sorry to hear how your ex is handling her mothering/lack of skills. You are so right- heartbreaking to watch their hearts break right in front of your eyes. I just wanted to offer a bit of encouragement though~ what I see in your posts are snapshots of a loving, attentive, involved stable parent that is providing a lighthouse of sorts for your kids. How BLESSED they are to have you as their parent! Don't lose sight of the huge opportunity you have been given (and I'm deliberately wording it that way, although it may not seem like a positive things right now, but I believe looking back years from now, this is what the kids will see~ you standing tall and proud for them). You hang in there!


M-60 H-51
M-14 years
BD 12/26/16
S 1/1/17

"First the pain, then the rising."
Glennon Doyle Melton