WAW and the Big D

[Bdog37]

Good grief, that is truly sucktastic, man. Mine wasn't as bad, but get this - know the pics that the OMs wife sent me? Well, one of them was of my ex performing oral sex on him...and guess what the date on it was? Our freaking anniversary...

Wow.... There are just no words for that. My ex was cheating on me around my bday (which happens to be on Christmas), but at least it wasn't on the actual day. Sure it would have been if she didn't have any family obligations. I asked for the details of the A and I eventually got them. For some reason I felt that I needed to know, but looking back now I probably could have gone without all that information. What about you? If you could go back would you say that you didn't need to see the pics or learn details like that?

Still, everything that she has done to me is meaningless. I'm done with her and would never want this woman back. I have zero f**** to give her anymore, but the constant absence in the kids lives is something that breaks my heart. I know you have to deal with this as well, being that your ex only see's your kids a couple times a month, so how do you handle this situation?

Right now, I don't bring anything negative up about their mom in front of them. My oldest doesn't say anything about it either until it is time to leave my house and go spend time with her mom. She throws a fit and refuses to get ready. So tough watching them go when I have them 5 out of 7 days a week....