Hey Focus - I don't think there's a specific timeframe on processing, but know that processing is 110% positive even when it feels horrible.
One thing I read recently that is helping me is "accept the feelings; change the thoughts". If you accept/acknowledge the feelings you have, they somewhat diminish and then you can fight off the negative thoughts you might have about anything / everything.
Hope you enjoy your fish and avocado. That sounds delish.
Be well.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
