There is no way that I can suggest any kind of therapist without starting a fight so I will not do that. She does not have any mental illness in her family that I know of. She slept in the bed with me again last night and is loving on me. She has been very positive and said two significant things. She was glad that I finally noticed that she was having an online EA and seems to be serious about stopping all contact with him after she finishes her current picture. She was glad that I believed her about the spying stuff. She was apparently really worried that I would not believe her so she does at least realize that it's a crazy story. she slept through the night the last two nights, she had been staying up a lot.
I have no idea what will happen next. I think I'm going to have to just let things happen for a bit and see where it goes. Putting all my energy into staying cool and accepting. I'm kind of afraid of her getting close to me for a while and then suddenly pulling back again. So I keep reminding myself to have zero expectations.
