Also, I'm thinking of taking the two sets of champagne flutes we got for our wedding and donating them. I never particularly liked one set, and the other is just far too much of a reminder.
I might buy two or three plain ones. I think that is as many as I would need. Or maybe not yet, just enjoy the space it's made and not having them in my life any more.
I was also able to advise on a friend who is caught up in a bad situation at the moment. His friend's fiance came onto him very overtly, and she piqued his interest. She followed it through with propositioning him.
Anyway, we had a chat about actions and reactions. More overtly the gap between feeling, thinking and acting. Also learning how not to get suckered into a situation, just because someone is acting out in some way that seems to be drawing you in. And how to try and detach from it all. So just because she flirted with him, and he got very turned on by it, he doesn't need to act on it (even though intellectually he already knew it would have been a very bad thing to do).
Well, the ball is in his court. he can do what he likes. I feel OK with what I said and not too drained by the conversation.
