SBJ, that phrase sums it up nicely. Time to THRIVE.
Gordie, thanks for your kind words. This site helped me through many a rough patch. I am glad to be able to pay that back. When in crisis there is no price we can put on the help we receive here. I will gladly pay that back. I just need to step back a little for a while. I've said that before and didn't stay away long..... we'll see.
Fighton. Thanks for dropping by. I will update from time to time though I am going to use my time better so maybe not very detailed. I often intend to post here but end up using all my time replying to someone in need. That is fine with me as I am OK at the moment.
Sotto I value your view, do thanks for your input. I am excited about this and will do what I can to go as far as I can. No more false limits.
Best wishes my friends
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together