Thanks all. I'm going to stand firm on my position that I won't be leaving the house. I always give in. I always concede. But I think this time I finally have more to lose by conceding than if I stood firm. My W is such a better fighter than I am. When she spews it breaks my heart and I turn into a pu$$y. I need to be ok with her being angry with me. I mean what's the worst that could happen? She could move out. It would be devastating for the kids, but part of me would be relieved if she did. I love her, but I don't like who she's become.


M46 W48
M11 T14
S11 D8
BD: 2016/05/27
In-home separation: 2016/11/23
Nesting: 2017/06/11
W moves out: 2018/01/07
W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12
I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14