Quote: Maybe I took it wrong, but your post sounded angry.
then sweetie, you did take it wrong. and for the record, i wasn't pointing fingers at anyone, just making generalized points about what was being said thruout the thread
we don't post much to each other, so you may not understand my "tone" - but this is far from angry. offended? me??? HA HA HA - no, people have to do alot more these days to offend me...paxil is great for that
if you felt that my comments were directed specifically at you then i aplogize. i had a general feeling after reading the last 20 or so posts and quite frankly, my memory isn't what it used to be, so i had no idea who i was addressing in particular.
the only point of "offense" (god how i hate that word) is the whole replies/views thing. maybe it came across as aruguing, but in all honesty, that was not my intent
and for the record...
Quote: There are people here who have NO hopes of saving their marriages. For some, the divorce is within the week or month. In my opinion, offering them false hope is not helpful. Why? So they can crash and burn in the courtroom, because up until that point they have believed that there was still hope?
i do believe in this statement. altho, michelle tends to remind us that things CAN CHANGE in the 11th hour. but you see pam - the way i see this whole db process FINALLY is that this isn't about our mate, this is about US individually - so there can be success if we apply these principles to ourselves
please sweetie, i wasn't trying to start anything ok? and i WASN'T finger pointing, and i am not angry - far from it!!!
