Quote: there is a lesson to be said about honesty, and i appreciate the candor of some here
Quote: who are we to dictate our time line on them?
Quote: who are WE to say when enough is enough?
This was just what I was trying to avoid. Finger pointing.
Say what you want about timelines and support, but I also see this side:
There are people here who have NO hopes of saving their marriages. For some, the divorce is within the week or month. In my opinion, offering them false hope is not helpful. Why? So they can crash and burn in the courtroom, because up until that point they have believed that there was still hope?
I am not trying to argue with anyone Kitti. I was just telling it like I saw it. Maybe I took it wrong, but your post sounded angry. If so, step back and figure out why you are offended. You shouldn't be. You are entitled to your opinion, just like everyone else.
