Yes it's a valid point you make I did post on other threads more so then my own I stopped posting after my coach guided me away from the marriage and all the history to focussing on myself In a strange twist of fate the solicitor told me the divorce was granted on Friday so I don't know if I fit here or what I'm looking at. I'm not as emiotionally tied up as i was at the start of this journey
I do take away something cadet posted about being a nice guy and its implications , I've worked a lot on dealing with my expectations and reflection, and dealing with conflict
I know Michelle's book is about divorce busting but it applies to other relationships I've noticed my daughters talk to me more and are asking to spend more time with me that's a positive change in my life
I'm not dating anyone at the moment I did date someone for nearly 6months before she decided she wasn't ready to take things further and needed time to recover from her own marriage breakdown I respected that decision, she was a positive influence on me it's was an ego boost it was great to just be myself and enjoy someone's company
Me: 45 w:45
M:6yrs T:9 Separated aug 15 no contact dec 15 come back july 16 I filed for closure aug 16
