Originally Posted By: FindAir

Last night she crawled back in bed with me and she hugged me and said she missed sleeping next to me. So confusing!


The one thing you've got going for you, is your W seems to be open to working on it - it's in your hands to decide if you want M or not.

In many of our cases our S has no interest in working on the M or are still in a confused state.

This is a turning point for sure in your R you can rise to the occasion and build a new Marriage with your W and your kids or decide to start all over again with someone different. Your happiness definitely comes first - so ask yourself can you be happy again (assuming changes are in store) with your W? Is there enough common foundation and shared interests there to capitalize on?


Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17