Thanks for the advice and yes that's sort of what I relized this past weekend... she could totally tell my mood was off when I first saw her, but I quickly "adjusted" and think I came out of the weekend ok.
No R talk but some future talk to which I often responded that depends on where "we" are...
I'm also starting to hold back a little on contacts. I guess I got excited when things were starting to pick up and perhaps that scared her back to her old ways.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17