Who is this woman? I cannot believe what this woman is doing. I got a text that my cellphone bill was late. (I paid my portion was waiting on wife to pay hers) I called, since I have restricted access (fixed now) the Verizon Lady told me my bill was 923.00 so we went through everything. 1. what lines are on my account, W was kind enough to leave D’s phone account.. Out of contract, canceled. Not a huge deal. 2. Then I asked about the bill, she said W took her lines on the 25th (that’s when our bill cycle ends) perfect. 3. W hadn’t paid her 150 balance…ok.. I start to get worried 4. There’s a 625 charge for an iPhone that was taken out of contract, I told the lady it belongs to such #, VL said she did not show it in her database. I knew what was coming. The VL said she’d call the number, VL puts me on hold, after about 5 min came back on the line and VL said “Your Wife took her lines to a different carrier I told her about the charges, Wife said she knew you’d get the bill and that you could discuss it in the Divorce” I stayed quiet. VL said “Miss Cheesy, It’s going to be ok, you will get though this” I about lost my sh!t. I held it together. We finished the conversation. I called W, no answer left her a brief VM, hey thanks for taking your lines, there’s a charge for the iPhone let me know what’s up with that, I’ll also email all your emails thanks. And I emailed her. I kept calm cool and collected. I will not give her the liberty of hearing me panicked. So On top of taking the house, all the material things inside the house, took money from the joint accounts, and leaves me with most of the debt on top she sticks me with a 923 dollar charge. For something I DON’T HAVE, KNOWINGLY. I cannot believe what the VL relayed to me. How low is this woman going to go? I feel like a dumbas$ for missing her so much last night and every day, for crying and for still having good thoughts abut her. What the heck is wrong with me?! I immediately started crying, walked over to my firend/co worker. She talked with me, consoled me. Told me this isn’t about me. That wife is manipulative, and playing the victim. She told me I’ll have good days, and bad and to let myself have bad days cus its healthy. She told me I can’t always be strong, even though I try. She also told me I’ve come so far, to think about all the good things that have come out of it.
I HATE THIS. I want to walk away. But I think that’s what W wants. I have a feeling I’m going to have to retain the lawyer fully to represent me. I don’t know if I mentioned, but I can do a “half” lawyer smaller retainer for advice and I represent myself. But it’s already not looking too good. Regardless on Monday when I meet with the L I will bring two checks, one for the “half” L and one for the full retainer. I want to get nasty, but I won’t. I will only ask for what’s mine because I believe in karma. I hate this and I don’t deserve this.
