Chris - would you be able to stay in another shared apartment where your W is potentially seeing OM? I'd know I would personally have a tough time with that thought...

I know you don't want to disrupt the kids routine and I can appreciate that but at the same time why should you be disrupted? It's not your decision. Let her feel a bit of the impact/consequences of her decision.

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17