his parents were very receptive. i didn't throw him under the bus, if anything I threw myself under. they love me and said that I can go to them anytime, for anything. I made his mom cry and his dad was shocked. His mom had admitted that her son is not perfect and not to blame myself, that he had a part in this too. they let me know they wouldn't say anything to him unless he came to them. I was shocked to know that he hadn't told them yet.
You did good. Like yours, mine didn't know at six months after the BD. Six months. And once it came to light, she lied and lied and lied. And then lied some more. Don't beat yourself up over his choices. You are awesome!
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
