Jbroken, blocking you from her instagram is probably did you a favor. I got rid of my facebook last year but my h still has his. I do have instagram but he doesn't. so if we were to end, I think It would be easier for me just to not return to facebook for a while. For me, seeing him with another woman would send me into a dark place. In my last serious relationship before my h, I kept him off all of my social media (facebook wasnt as popular back then, it was myspace, I just totally dated myself. haha) and it seemed to help. after I was over him and had moved on, it wasn't a problem being friends on social media. you need time to heal that gaping wound. All I keep thinking about is how awkward its going to be with mutual friends. we don't live in an enormous town, and our families are sort of intertwined in a sense also. it's just going to be hard for me to cope with that. very hard. ps- always looking for like minded people on instagram! It's my socialization- from afar. LOL (introvert joke)