Roist--as always, you are inspiring and encouraging. Best wishes in your new approach...even if that means more time away from here. I love this detachment, strength and independence:

"Regardless of where we are at or how she treats me, I can treat her the way I want."

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving