Jeep74 - you are exactly right. However...I was not a great husband for 16 years. She put up with a lot of sh*t from me. Is this an excuse for her doing what she is doing right now...of course not. But the thing neutral parties fail to consider in my opinion is that over the course of 16 years, there was a TON of good times and a special bond created and maintained. If there was ever a chance of things working out (highly unlikely at this point), trust would be a MAJOR issue that would have to be worked on very slowly with a TON of boundaries put into place by both of us. Again, probably living in a pipe dream but who knows...crazier things have happened.
Whether you were a great husband or not is irrelevant. There are only two valid reasons for divorce: Adultery or abuse.
Pipe dreams are OK as long as you know they are just that and don't bet your future on it. You need to worry about you and your kid. Nothing else matters.
Originally Posted By: sellout
What about documentation with photos/videos? I can literally film her walking to/from.
She is now a "streetwalker"!!! Ha!
Only if you have photo proof of them together.
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