I really want to see other women to get a jump start on this process and honestly to show wife that I am capable of getting another woman with no problem. Is this a bad idea? Should I hold off on dating until divorce is final or start now. Would't wife see me as more attractive if she found out I found a new little hottie? Thoughts???
It really would not be kind to drag a third party into your situation just to use them to make W jealous. What if that person ended up having real feelings for you? You can GAL, do your own thing, and let W wonder. Mystery is attractive. But complicating your situation with another woman at this juncture is probably not a good idea.
