The aim is she will want to come back. That is an internal process that she has to complete.
Originally Posted By: roist
She cannot come back until you have let her go.
Originally Posted By: roist
The trick is not to fill that void, but to expand all other aspects of your life so that void is imperceptible. IMO it is healthy to have a void there because a R with someone special is important. However dwelling on it will not help.
Roist is spot on in all of these. I think fear is what paralyzes us from doing what we need to do...I'm speaking from experience personally. Huddy, my fear is that if I do totally drop the rope, she might not return...I am now realizing that she might not return anyway. We are all hear lifting you up and we all need to keep each other accountable. We need to do what works, not what we think should work.
God bless you in your trials.
James 1:12 New International Version (NIV)
12 Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!
