I am so very sorry that he can't accept his mistakes and what he's done to you and your family. Some of them never will admit what they've done and your h is one of them.

I could continue to listen to what your children tell you and provide them w/the right answers. Always be truthful w/them and it's evident that your daughter feels very comfortable in telling you what her father has said. She's growing up and she will begin to put the pieces together and come to realize that her father is lying about everything and trying to control and manipulate her and your situation.

Wishing, I would listen and observe. Who knows what he's thinking...but my personal thoughts are that he wants this info to get back to you in order to get you riled up and have you come at him. He wants a justification for what he's doing and he wants to make sure you are upset and angry all of the time. In other words, he's miserable and he wants you to be miserable too. Don't get him that satisfaction.

Some day you will get the opportunity to set him straight. But now is not the time. Dig deeper for patience and keep the focus on you and your family. Don't let him see you sweat!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.