I'm glad you returned to post an update. You sound good and I'm proud of you and your children for all that you've been through and survived in the last 30 months on so. It's never easy when a parent goes missing and has very little contact w/the family.
Yes, your h is missing out on a lot of important things going on in the lives of his family. It's sad when the gifts are outdated and the cards have no real meaning behind them. It just goes to show that his empathy chip is broken and his life isn't all that grand.
Congratulations on the new job! I'm glad you are keeping your focus on the future and your GAL activities.
Keep up the good work!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
