Quote: I don't have it in me to be an "arfer." (arfing seal..you know...) I was hoping for more give and take on how to be the best person you can be. What I see is a lot of people chasing their tails and then wondering why they are not getting anywhere. Am I just too impatient? Sure, I'll agree that for the first little bit that wallowing seems the only option. But, at some point it needs to go beyond that.
I feel heartless for thinking this. But, I can't deny who I am
I appreciate your honesty. I am one of those people who continue to chase my tail around. I KNOW what I should do, I KNOW what works, I KNOW what doesn't work, I KNOW why I do what I do, I KNOW what the payoff is, I KNOW what a good m I could have, yet I continue to do all the wrong stuff. Lord, I wish I could help myself. I know it is frustrating for you to read, as well as it is for my h to take.
I frustrate myself. I don't know why I feel like I can't control my emotions and what comes out of my mouth, or what tears fall out of my head.
If you have any suggestions on getting un-stuck, please lay them on me. But, I don't think that is your point. I'll have to read up on your sitch.
