My question, though, is why is it our instinct to do the things that will make our spouses not want to come back or stay? Mostly everyone wants to beg and plead, right?
I just thought of a good point. Just as my instincts as a man to treat my wife like a man wants to be treated, like I want to be treated, rather than how a woman wants to be treated, greatly contributed to my failure as a husband, other instincts like begging, pleading, and convincing could fail me the same, even though they seem so right (well, at least convincing and sweet talking).
25, did your husband have another woman?
M: 33, W: 30 @BD M 7, T 10 BD: Early Dec W left: Late Dec W got stuff: Late Jan W sent S papers: Mid Feb OM cnfrmd: Late Feb
Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.
