Thank you all for sharing your experiences, especially you, betterman. That was what I was looking for. Our agreements are written, but not in stone. At least this is how I have approached them, and so has STBXW. Miss Opportunity and I have been very flexible and, I think, we will continue to be in the future. I had some fog around my head and could not see clearly, but you are right, Ownit, the question to be asked every single time is: is it hurting my kids?
Me43 W39 M 12y,T 15y S09,S07 Bomb Jun14 Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15 Share bed Mar/May15 Reconcile Jun15 Aug15 W sais D will happen D told to kids Sept15 W moved out with kids 01 October15
