Something bothers me, it seems that he reinitiated some contacts with you when he realized how deep in debt he was. Please follow Blu advice, keep your financial interests separate from your emotional needs.

Listen and validate him tonight, but remember you don't have to give any answers right on site, ask for some time to think about it.

My WH used to be very nice and open to communication when he needed something. I am not implying that he might try to manipulate you but keep it in mind. One WH' friend made her pay her credit car bill just 2 months before filing. Be very careful...

Good luck. Keep your expectations low and detach+++

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Me 52+ WH 57+
Married 20 +
Piecing since 2016 (ready to give up...)