Firstly, I received an eviction notice for my flat. The guy who owns it wants to sell it and so my lease isn't being renewed. I have to be out by the start of June. Bummer!
Secondly, my W called this evening to tell me her 'boob' job had burst and got infected. The doctor is calling her back to hospital on Wednesday to remove the implant and then treat the infection. She called to ask me to look after the kids. It's difficult to say no to that situation. I will look after my children, but I won't be looking after W.
We had a small convo about her op. She told me that she hadn't told her family and had only told one close friend (funnily, it's the same one that she got pally with just prior to me being given my variant of ILYBNILWY speech). I knew, but didn't let on (apart from to fellow forum members and my good bud NDY), so acted shocked that she'd had it done. She said she hadn't told me as she 'didn't tell you everything' - hmmm.....more lying me thinks and manipulation going on.
So, forum friends, how do I approach this? The doctor is planning to sew her up while she goes away with the kids next week. Do I try a 'times up - what do you think you're doing speech' or not? Surely it's time for her to come to her senses, right? I'm determined that I won't help her, as such, but I obviously have to look after my children. This is the difficult bit - how can I show detachment during this?
All in all, a bit of a ba$tard of a day
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
