Struggling

[Imlucky]

Hello everyone
Well I have filled for divorce I'm just waiting for courts to process
And bam my wife ? Has visited me on the weekend asking to date and attempt to reconnect
I stopped working on saving my marriage to focusing on me i did date another woman for 6 months and that was different and I take away great memories of it

I will write more time to head of to work hopefully some veterans have some ideas or advise I'm honestly lost I stopped wanting her back then be honest and now it's back in the table
I'm concerned when the going gets tough and it will there some issues to work thru she will run again and I don't want to lose all my growth and hard work

Cheers