You're super cool! You've got a good handle on how this stuff works.
Problem is and has been making sustainable changes. Life gets ahead of you and you lose your focus. Learning a lot about being a little selfish and doing for me is not a bad thing at all. In fact, not doing for me makes a real dull me.
Love the quote from The Shining: "All work and no play make Jack a dull boy." It's really freaking true.
I fixed a bit my work-life balance a few years ago, but still did not fix me as an individual nor me as a husband. Really improved as me the dad and that's been wonderful.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
You've got a good handle on how this stuff works.
