Jeep74, everything you say is true, it's just hard for me to come to terms with it. at this point, after the weird behavior he pulled this morning after I had written the post, I feel there is something wrong him, more than what he is letting on. He, for the first time in a long time, initiated sex after returning home from the gym this morning. I was shocked. especially after his extremely walled off behavior yesterday. at first i though, WOOHOO!! he's back! but then I quickly reminded myself not to get excited, because it could all turn around in an instant, and it did afterwards. sulky, depressed behavior within an hour of ML.