Why the change in your W's thinking?

I have no experience with the nesting thing, but it looks like there are some around here who do...though it seems like it is a temporary solution...


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving