SBJ.....I am so sorry. That is news that no one ever wants to hear.
I know when my husband said "yes, its true I had an affair" it was like this rage came over me. I started yelling and screaming and trying to hit and kick him. Definitely NOT one of my better moments.
I still am trying to cope with my anger. It is something that comes and goes. Sad to say its been more prevalent lately
If you can find a way to use the anger to help you detach then you are doing much better then I am.
You are such a strong man and thankfully you have your faith, family and friends to help you through this difficult time.
Please continue to take care of yourself. My thoughts are with you
