SBJ, I'm so sorry to read this. I haven't posted a lot but have followed your thread and In hindsight it makes sense. They want to hurry the D so they can excuse their inappropriate actions. It sounds like your dealing w/it well considering the circumstances. Better than I did. Use the anger to detach if you can and focus on yourself and the kids. They will need you because in my experience w will put herself and OM first (actually she already has); for the time being she is gone.
