Betsey, I hope your MC last night went extraordinarily well!! Like others here on the board, I am wondering if doing major 180's and showing your H that you are moving on would be a first step, before the letter. I wrote to you about this before. I know you said it would upset your D, but maybe you could make her an accomplice? You know, not being home, not answering the phone, going "out."
Sometimes, they just don't believe our words.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
