Hi Wonder! Nice to meet you.
I've been just a squatter on Meredith's old thread since I gave mine up months ago. Oh, I am still DBing my ass off, but I just didn't have it in me to keep up a thread.
I have progressed in the last 6 or 7 months from my H being absolutely sure he wanted a D (and him moving out), to almost having a real marriage back. It's happening slowly, but, I have learned that patience is my friend.

I had the good luck to be rescued by Betsey and Meredith early on. Without them, I surely would have sealed my own fate as a divorced mom. Betsey, the Pied Piper of the BB, picked me up on her happy journey. I'd follow that woman anywhere, I think. Meredith also.

Among Betsey's good qualities is that she sees the best in everyone. So, for those of you that believed it.... Not only do I not have Rachel hair, I don't have Rachel anything!