OH MY! I take a few days off from the BB to tend to "life" and you all are 7 pages into Friends. Well. See what happens? Thanks for the character update 'cause I was getting a bit lost.
Quote: And I AM a winner!
OK, let me say, Betsey, that I initially burst out laughing at this because I thought: "Well, of course! No kidding! You are the champion, never mind the winner."
I know you weren't being funny.
But I can't imagine anyone on this BB doesn't know you are a winner. Do you know it, girl? I mean, really in your heart KNOW IT? Cause it's the truth. You are just amazing in your commitment, your insight, your willingness to really get into the depths of this sitch and work for your M. And be a capital M mom at the same time. I, for one, admire that. I am going to throw out a wild guess that Mr. W admires you too. And that might create some complications for him.
I am fascinated by the idea of men only offering strength. I have been the strong one in my M. Took a lot for me to see that. But you know, I kind of like my strength and I'm not so willing to let that go. And I might guess that you like yours too?
It's a delicate balance.
You know Mr. W better than the rest of us. You know what's going to be the right decision for you. You clearly know how to DB for your M. Certainly we're supporting you.
Pam and Mer, I have to say I am new to your sitches, can't fake as if I know what's going on. But you both sound like strong and insightful DBers to me. And Pam, if you have Rachel hair, that can't hurt. Right?