Friends: Anchor, Bruce and Chum's BB Version

[holdingon]

HE must be the one to make a choice. Either way will require a fight for him. Either way will help him come to terms with his masculinity issue. He will have to fight feelings of worthlessness, failure and disappointment if he chooses to divorce me. If he fights for me, he will have to work very hard at pulling himself back together again.

What you said.

Wild at Heart was a huge wake up call for me, too. PIB, you might look at your church's library. I know our church had a study for men with that book.

How I would love to be rescued. Problem is, I don't think my H thinks I need rescuing, when in fact, my heart aches... how I want him to rescue me... But, for my kids, for me, I will continue to be strong and hope that the Lord gives him the strength and courage to do the right thing... would buying him a white horse and a sword be considered controlling???