My H has done that same thing- questioning why I have very little friends, and essentially calling me 'boring' without really saying it. It really makes me angry that he accepted me for who I was in the beginning, so much so that he decides to marry me, then one day, I'm no longer 'the one' for him. It's like I was the new and latest toy on the market, and he was all excited and then one day I was no longer fun to play with. treated like a possession that no longer held any value to him. It's been two weeks since my H's bomb and we have had a counseling session together- which hearing some things during the session were hurtful. I guess it sent me into the angry phase and now I just feel anger and animosity. it caused me to say scr*w it and I went out last night, without him. annnndd, then I woke up sick this morning. lol ugh!!!