Briget, so glad you dropped in. Try to make this a regular stop, o.k? You don't know it, but I am one of your biggest fans! I asked Betsey and Mer to go read your stuff because I just love your attitude. I find you very colorful, and I mean that in the nicest way possible! I decided a long time ago that (if such a thing existed) I would read a whole book about you, and be cheering you on the whole time.
Rachel??? Come on Betsey! What is THAT about? I don't even have good hair...
PIB, I wanted to add to your statement about not attempting Betsey's route unless you've been solidly DBing. Also, don't do it unless you are truly prepared for which way it could go. I believe in what Betsey is doing because she has a sense of peace over it. It is not an ultimatum to her H in the sense that she is not throwing it out there as a thinly disguised way of hoping to scare him into coming back. It is not manipulative- it's just honest and straightforward.
And, believe me, I KNOW all about manipulation! I used to be the queen of it, as a matter of fact.
Bets, I'll miss ya this weekend! Hopefully, people will pitch in and hold down the fort. I know I'm not interesting enough to do it on my own!!! Seattle crowd, be good to my DB Goddess!
I don't even have good hair...
