Mleigh - I just want you to know that I am thinking of you. I always enjoy hearing from you.

In regards to your wanting to date, it's just hard because this whole time you've been moving forward and it *seems* like he's stuck in the finger pointing stage. (Maybe he's further along but it's not transparent?) He seems to be holding grudges over garden variety marital problems and yet not seeing the tsunamis he's caused. It's that ever present lack of self awareness that runs through MLC.

I want to see you and your son as happy and fulfilled as possible. Keep us posted on how you are doing. You are an inspiration; another one who made it through this experience stronger than ever.


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced