Wow what a difference a day makes? Seems like the thread has lulled to a murmur. Is Monica on one of her cleaning sprees? Is Phoebe giving a message? Is Rachel just looking hot as ever flaunting it at the coffee shop?

Betesy, I just wanted to say thanks for your support. I learn lots about myself and lots about life from your inspiration on my thread and here on yours.

We have talked about all of this and you know where I stand. I completely support you. You deserve to have all that you desire. No one knows him better than you and no one knows you and your children better than you. This is your decision, no one elses.

That being said, all on the BB just love you and want you to succeed. There are many positives here, MOSTLY HIM NOT PUSHING FOR PAPERS. The everyday interaction is great.

Before you send a letter, let me ask you a question. A friend of mine asked me, what if you just acted the part of withdrawing, detaching, and moving on with your life instead of communicating your intention to her? I know you had done this in the past with the family vacation and it worked to some extent. Would he ever feel the real threat of loss? Now I don't think this would work for me because of our communication problems all along, but I'm not so sure.