This is a wonderful post. You expressed your feelings and thoughts (as always) so well. Bets, you don't need to defend your need for knowing his intentions. I'm not behind you on this, that would be pushing you. I'm right next to you, to walk right along and listen to what you are saying. Do what you need to do.
Betsey, the one thing you did say about being the tough one, the who seemed ok with whatever came along really hit home. Maybe that is why we are in the mess.
You do matter! You are important! it's way past time for Mr.W to see that.
Pattie
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
