What was the purpose of deleting the messages? Did you ask?
I asked if she had done it, in a text msg. She said no. I don't believe her.
I have them all on my Mac.
As for reasons, I can only speculate, seeing as she won't admit it, but my educated guess is because I told OM in an email I had plenty of evidence that W was lying and we were still together... She was deleting the evidence that I might send to him... The ILYs and the pic of the pregnancy tester in particular I think.
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18