W texted saying she was thinking about taking the dog for a night and asking if this weekend would work. I don't want this at all. I will not be giving up the dog in a D or even doing shared custody and the sooner she realizes that the better. Don't want any precedent established on this. Plus I resent that while her affair was still going on she couldn't care less about seeing the dog.
I'm thinking of waiting a while before just replying, "I don't think that's a good idea." and ignoring the inevitable "Why not?" response from her as well as anything else she'd say on it. But are there any better ideas?