Did you try to have relationship talks with her, or act sad around her? If nit, then pat yourself on the back - thats a win.

Keep it together around her. You'll move forward eventually, but its super hard. I can relate.

M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process